This is a moment that I wanted to write an article like this without really knowing quite how to turn… the company has evolved…
This morning I & rsquo; have been inspired by the Gaby pretty with which j & rsquo; have had the chance to work, who also addressed this topic on his blog.
The company expects after that thou spent the 30 ans, you're Row (casée), with children, a good stable job.
Be a woman…
Yes, but not as… you must make a good living but not too much, you need t & rsquo; fulfillment in your work but have time to be a mom has for her children, you must not do better than the & rsquo; man with whom you share your life.
So already I am appreciative of those women who are able to manage while 1 one day… je n’ai “than” des animaux et parfois le mix avec l’entretien de la maison et mes 2 jobs is relatively complicated.
I'm what society would call, a bad example… I'm on my 34 ans, I don & rsquo; d & rsquo have not; children, j & rsquo; have 2 jobs that are definitely not in the codes and I earn my living with it all.
But I confess to being got drunk all the clichés that circulate… I am too old to have a child, I'm intermittent entertainment so that & rsquo; we live in & rsquo; hard and I'm a lazy. Sure I'm so lazy that I & rsquo; also have a self-business for my photography business, graphic artist, community management… Do you know that j & rsquo; love my job, I already told you on the blog.
children…
Yes I don & rsquo; have not d & rsquo; children. But you asked the question on how to manage a pregnancy when & rsquo; one is a woman who loves her job, who wants to move in it and to top it all there is intermittent entertainment ? C & rsquo; is very complicated.
We can not have everything, and have everything at the same time if it is not… So I take things in & rsquo; order, arrive as Ellles. I understand that some women s & rsquo; bloom in raising their children every day. Regarding me, I know that my development goes through my job. J & rsquo; so I chose to take my time and do my little place as manager.
Why so judgmental towards women who have children after 30 or younger 20 ? The only person able to know if you are ready, c & rsquo; is you. To tell you all, j & rsquo; ve always loved children. J & rsquo; even organize my schedule depending on the school holidays of my nephew and my niece.
The future ?
Children j & rsquo; in like since j & rsquo; have 25 ans, but life n & rsquo; is not that simple. I don & rsquo; had not then met my darling, and subsequently the priorities gradually as we manage.
I will not be before Mom 35 ans, c & rsquo; is a fact. Why would that make me a worse mom ? It n & rsquo; there is no connection.
Pour c’est LA question que j’entends régulièrement depuis que j’ai passé le “cap” des 30 ans. Why people never ask us if we are happy and fulfilled in our work ? C & rsquo; is also an important thing.
I laced it all. All in good time and in his personality. We could go on forever about this deal, through what people expect of you weight level and level life choices….
N & rsquo; remember that behind a screen, social networks, there are people who share the same concerns you.
Tell me if you also every day you encounter this kind of society comments.
2 comments
J’ai adoré ton article , on est dans une société où l’on est jugé quoi que l’on fasse en tant que femme , et c’est vraiment désespérant…
Je trouve que tu as vraiment un mode de vie super !
Ne laisse personne t’en faire douter! Tu seras une très bonne maman ?✨??
Oh merci Wendy ton commentaire est vraiment tttttrrroooop mignon.
Tu sais bien qu’avec nos métiers tout ça n’est pas facile en plus… des bisous